Hey, lovely souls! 🌱 It’s Sunday, and you know what that means—time for some thoughtful reflections. Today, I want to dive into something that’s been lingering in the depths of my mind: the concept of success. You see, as a Maverick Quaintrelle, I’ve always been a square peg trying to fit into a round hole, especially when it comes to societal definitions of success. So, grab a cup of tea (or coffee if you’re me), and let’s redefine success together, shall we?
The Traditional Ladder & Why It Didn’t Fit
From a young age, we’re told that success is a straight path—school, job, marriage, 2.5 kids, a dog, and a white picket fence. But what if you’re like me, someone who finds solace in the jagged, in the scenic detours, in the paths less traveled? There was a time I tried to climb this proverbial ladder, only to find it leaned against the wrong wall.
A Maverick’s “Aha!” Moment
Then came my “aha!” moment during one of my solo travels (another thing that doesn’t fit in that picket-fence paradigm). I found myself amidst people who had so little, yet radiated so much joy. That experience struck a chord. Was success really about acquiring, or was it about experiencing? I realized I had been chasing a construct, not a feeling, not a state of being.
The Freedom to Define Success
And here comes the Maverick’s spin—defining success on your own terms. For me, it’s the freedom to explore, to create, to love openly and passionately. Success isn’t in the paycheck or the title; it’s in the mini-victories, like standing in front of a piece of art and feeling something stir in your soul or finding a kindred spirit in a far-off land.
Quality Over Quantity
I’ve decided to measure my life in sunsets watched, in authentic conversations had, in pieces of art that left me changed. In this journey, each one of you, my readers, is a unit of success—because what’s a message if it doesn’t resonate with anyone?
And that’s a wrap for this week, darlings! I hope this Sunday thought-starter leaves you feeling empowered to redefine your own success, just like it did for me. Here’s to a life that’s uniquely yours! 🌟💕
So, What’s Your Definition?
Now, it’s your turn. How do you define success? Is it similar to mine or wildly different? Either way, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Let’s open up this discussion and maybe, just maybe, we can free someone else from a limiting perspective.
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